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Hajj and
Umrah Tips & Tricks
- EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: DO study the fiqh of Hajj & Umrah
before you go, well in advance. (I mean really advanced, not the
weeks before it'll be so hectic you won't be able to do it at your
leisure. Think 2-3 months in advance.) Get some good books, tapes
and videos. Look online and print everything out. Write all the
Duas out on index cards. Try to memorize as many as you can BEFORE
you go. Make flash cards whatever it takes!
DO NOT go there and expect to learn how to do everything from
your guides/ppl with you. This is too important not to know for
yourself. Remember if you do anything incorrect your umrah or hajj
WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED. There are many stories of the tour people
taking people to do things too early or too late. Also, the crowd
there is so enormous it is incredibly difficult when millions of
people are all trying to do the same thing at the same time. This
is where your fiqh of hajj knowledge comes in. It makes it much
easier if you know things like you can pray your 2 rakats of Maqam
Ibrahim all the way back in the Haram, or on the different levels
or even anywhere in the Haram, or that you can do your Saiyy on
the secod level or that you can throw your stones from after
sunrise to anytime at night. If you know things like this you can
avoid the crowds of people who will try to stick to only one thing
because they don't know what else is allowed. Also if something
happens you will know what you should do to compensate for it and
you may save your hajj or umrah.
A NOTE about all the books and info. Everyone will tell you
something a little different. Try to piece everything together so
that you at least know what the required conditions you must
fulfill are and what things would break your hajj or umrah
absolutely or what things will necessitate compensation. Ask your
Imam or local knowledgable people to help you understand the Fiqh
and answer any questions you have.
- Also VERY IMPORTANT: Learn the fiqh of praying a Janaza
(funeral prayer). You will be doing it after every single prayer,
no joke. (There was only one prayer in our entire 2 week stay that
we didn't.) Learn the dua for it too. Praying at someone's janaza
is a very good thing and you have ample opportunity of
participating so take them. Also learn the different ways to send
Salams on the prophet (saw) for the time you are in Madina.
Another good suggestion is to draw a chart of the Kaaba (looking
from above) and along each of it's walls (and along each of the
special points), write the relevant duas.
- The best times to visit the Haram of Makkah, do tawaf and
saiyy, ibadah and to try to touch the black stone etc is from 1AM
until Fajr and from about an hour after Fajr until 9 or so. A good
schedule would be to sleep from Fajr until Dhuhr, pray Dhuhr in
the Haram then go back to the hotel and eat and rest. (After Dhuhr
about noon to 2 it is HOT.) Go back for Asr. Then go back for
Maghrib and STAY there for Isha/Taraweeh. After you can take a few
hours to go shopping if needed. Otherwise stay at the haram,
alternating doing different things like Tawaf, reading Quran,
praying until Qiyam which is about 1AMish Then stay until Tahajjud
which is about an hour before Fajr. Then stay for Fajr. If you are
going to Ziyara or doing multiple Umrahs and can't sleep after
Fajr, take a few hours at night before Fajr to sleep. (You might
say to yourself.. gee doesn't look like there is any time for
sleep there! That's true.. don't waste your time sleeping.. you
can always sleep when you come home :) But know when your body is
tired and can't take it anymore. Don't make yourself sick. Naps of
3-4 hours worked for me.)The best spots in the Haram are right in
front of the Kaaba on the marble surrounding it or on the second
level at the front. If you want to be on the haram floor you have
to go early and stake out a spot. Sisters should head towards the
Zamzam area and sit right near there, otherwise you'll get kicked
out of any other area after awhile. A really good spot I found for
sisters is upstairs all the way in the front of the sisters
section. You have an incredible birds-eye view of the entire haram
and can still pray witht he Kaaba in sight. Remember to bring your
prayer rug to sit on. This is so that people don't come and sit
right in front of you or back of you so you'll have room to pray
later. Two things that I wish I knew before hand about this.You
can pray anywhere in the Haram without a sutrah ie people can walk
in front of you without breaking your prayer. (This was extremely
annoying to me at the beginning when people would walk right
through my sutrah every time!) (But you should try your best not
to do this to others). And you can also look at the Kaaba while
you pray in the Haram.
- PREPARE yourself mentally for alot of frustration, mental
anguish, annoyance and anger. To obtain a Hajj Mabrur (one that is
accepted and forgives all your sins) you must not let these things
interfere with your goal.
- PREPARE yourself physically for alot of walking and physical
exercise. You may be walking back and forth from your hotel to the
Haram at least 10 times a day, not to mention logging Tawafs and
Sai'ys that come out to miles in the end.
- DO NOT bring alot of clothes. All you need really is 3-4
jilbabs - mostly black for umrah time (lighter colors for hajj and
summer season) and a few clothes underneath that you can mix and
match. Bring enough socks and underthings. You can always wash
clothes if you have to. But bringing alot of clothes just wastes
your time and suitcase room. A regular travelling rule of thumb is
to never pack more than you can carry for a trip!
It goes without saying that you should bring some comfy
shoes/sneakers for when you go on Ziyara or shopping. Also bring
some good chappals/shibshib for when you are going to the haram.
Don't overpack your suitcase. You won't be able to get it all back
home especially if you buy things. You can always give away some
of your clothes/shoes while there or try this well-known
travelling tip: bring an extra empty suitcase/bag with you or buy
one there.
- A NOTE for Madina. The weather there is very different from
Makkah. Madina is much cooler. We were in 80-90 degrees everyday
in Makkah and then in Madina we were at 60-70s and it was
extremely COLD around Fajr, so bring a sweatshirt/sweater and a
few warm clothes so you don't get sick.
- DO NOT bother bringing anything expensive, like jewelry or
electronic equipment. If it's lost or stolen you'll never see it
again.
- DO NOT change money before you go. There are tons of exchanges
there that you can go to on the streets and you'll get a better
rate than the usual bank rate too. Bring enough cash for what you
want to buy. Don't rely on using your credit card. There are
finance charges of at least 2-3% and the exchange rate of Visa
sux.
- DO bring alot of medicine - Tylenol, asprin, Theraflu, Tums,
Pepto Bismol, Midol, Chapstick/Vaseline. Believe me you'll be glad
you did and if by some miracle you don't get sick other people in
your group will.
- DO bring some snack food like granola bars, goldfish, dried
fruit. You'll be glad when your stomach starts doing loops or you
are starving in the haram. Not to mention sometimes getting stuck
for hours on a bus during heavy traffic or waiting for clearance.
- DO bring a cheap plastic bag/canvas bag to put your shoes and
janamaz (prayer rug) and quran in when you go into the haram.
Don't bring a janamaz from home. Just buy a nice one there. You
can also bring a small bag/purse you can wear under your jilbab
for your money/passport. Don't bother with big handbags- you'll
get searched every time you enter the haram and will have to watch
it all the time.
- DO NOT waste your time shopping. You're only in Makkah once in
your life (anything could happen and due to life circumstances,
being busy, illness etc you may never return again).
Make a list of what gifts you have to give to whom beforehand
and write down what you need to buy and quantities. That way you
won't waste alot of time trying to decide what to get for who.
Some common gifts include:
- Dates (yes they have chocolate covered dates :))
- Zamzam water
- Tasbeeh Beads
- Hijabs & Jilbabs
- Prayer Rugs (called sajadahs there)
- Jewelry (gold, fake and everything in between)
- Metal work (tea sets etc)
- Incense Perfumes & Perfume bottles
- Thobes
- Kufis
- Cards
- Desi (IndoPak) dresses
- Books
- Watches
- DO NOT bother going any malls. They're usually WAY too
expensive, but if you want to waste your time window shopping or
looking at American and European designer stuff go ahead.
A NOTE about shopping, every shop owner and I mean EVERY (even
those who are very nice and islamic and kind to you) will try to
get every penny (riyaal) from you if they can. For your first time
out just walk around and ask for prices of different things until
you get a handle of how much things go for. (Brothers please ask
your mothers/wives what a good price for gold/gram is before you
try to buy anything there!)
- DO NOT speak English or any foreign language in stores, just
urduor arabic. . They will totally rip you off. Even if all you
know is "Kam Hatha" and they know you don't speak Arabic as your
native language because of your accent for some reason if you
speak English they up the price 200% automatically. You must
bargain for everything you buy. Everything is marked up as par for
the course. A good trick is to offer half then work your way up.
Remember to go to many stores to get an idea of price range.
Sometimes they will tryto bully you into buying something by
grabbing it and stuffing it into a bag. Don't let them.. take
yourtime, get what you want and check it. If you feel that the guy
is ripping you off but really want/need the stuff, buy it anyway
because you'll regret it after. Anything there is cheaper than
anywhere here. Don't let pride stand in your way :)
- DO learn all the Arabic numbers (1 to 20, and every 5 after
that till a hundred and you'll be set) and phrases like that "Kam
Hatha?" - How much is that?, "BiKam?" How much?, "Shuayyeh" Move
over, and "Laa..." No...
Don't tell them you're from America unless you're window
shopping. Don't dress expensively, shop keepers there are
extremely sharp. You can even wait a few days until everyone else
has found the best places to buy things cheap - find out where
they are and THEN save time and just get what you want.
SISTERS be careful about going shopping alone (as in, DON'T)
always go with a bro (hate to say it but you're safer from
harassment) or with a group of sisters.
- DO be careful about taking pictures and bringing cameras.They
don't let cameras into either of the Harams and they'll check your
bags too.
- DO agree on prices for cab rides, camel rides and any other
service in between beforehand. A note about the camel rides. They
will immediately go and take polaroids of you on the camel/horse
and then force you to buy them. Tell them beforehand NO PICTURES
please. (One guy cursed our group and made dua that Allah never
answer our duas b/c someone refused to buy the pics !!)
- BEGGARS - There are beggars everywhere. On the streets of
Makkah, at historical sites like Uhud, Arafat etc. They'll even
come up to you (to sisters too!) and tell you stories about how
they lost all their luggage and possessions and need to get back
to Jeddah/Makkah/Madinah. It's hard to figure out who is faking
and who isn't. I would suggest deciding on an amount you would
like to give as Sadaqah beforehandand. Then give that to a
reputable Islamic relief agency or relatives you have in poor
countries or even friends/ppl traveling back to their home
countries.They would know better who is truly in need.
- MAKE SURE to go to Ziyara. Ziyara is visiting the local
historical sites in Makkah or Madina. It's extremely important to
visit those sites, give your salams to the dead, to really get a
feeling and understanding of how Islam began in this place. I
would say it should be almost as important to you as making sure
you do your Umrah. (But please don't think it's fard or anything
else. :)) Don't go there thinking it's part of any worship
practices. Many people do go to those sites and commit strange
innovative practices (you'll see all the Saudi signs in Arabic,
English, French, Urdu and Turkish!! telling ppl not to). This is
where learning some Seerah (study of the life of Muhammad (saw)
and the early Muslims) is extremely important before you go so you
can actually feel where you are visiting. Just take one day after
fajr and have some cab driver take you out to the different
places. Get a map of Jannat al-Baqi` and make sure you say salam
to all the sahaba/saliheen buried there. For both Ziyara's go
immediately AFTER Fajr at the haram, come back BEFORE dhuhr, pray
dhuhr at the haram and then rest at the hotel for awhile.
- DO NOT forget what gate you enter the Haram from and the hotel
you are staying at.
- DO make multiple Umrahs. It's not hard to take theshort cab
ride to TAN'IM sometime after Fajr. (The place you'll need to go
to state your intention andre-enter Makkah in Ihram). Make ghusl
and change into your ihram before you go. Then at Tan'im you just
pray 2 rakats and make your intention for umrah again. Comeback
before Dhuhr and perform your second (or third orfourth) umrah...
Remember you can also make umrah on behalf of another person, a
dead relative or someone back home who could not make it.
- DO NOT look at pictures of the Kaaba before you go. From now
until you see it with your own two eyes It RUINS the impact it has
on your heart.
- REMEMBER you are there to worship. Shopping, eating, etc are
all just a waste of time. Food: it will be tempting to eat all
this food there, but remember this much: the more you eat, the
more tired you will get and in Makkah you will NEED your energy.
Take all this advice with a grain of salt. Every situation/time
is different. Most of the information here is suitable for umrah.
Hajj may be a completely different experience!
Some Tips from Br. Khalid:
- HOTEL - Choose one within 5 mins walking distance of Haram if
you can. When the crowds descend it will take you 20-30 mins to
get to the Mosque.
- JUMAH - Go EARLY!!!! Our first Jumah in Makkah the Adhaan was
12:05 or something and we got to Masjid Al Haram at 11am. BIG
mistake. The concourse outside the Masjid was full let alone
trying to get in there. We sat in the beating sun for over an hour
and prayed. The next week we got there at 9 am !!!
- TAWAF - There are large groups who perform Tawaf together and
link hands. If you see them approach you, then let them pass or
step aside and give them way. Also watch out for the elderly who
are being carried around the Kabah and people taking their
relatives around in wheelchairs. As a rule the nearer the Kabah
you perform your Tawaf the more squashed you will get and I mean
squashed. This is especially true when going around Maqam Ibrahim
because of the people trying to pray.
- ARAFAT - Make the most of this day as possible. Don't eat too
much after Zuhur. The last thing you want to do is feel sleepy
from having over eaten
- MUZDALIFAH - You have to pray Fajr on the morning of Eid
before you go back to Mina. Make sure you make a note of what time
Fajr was when you were in Makkah. Some people make the Adhaan too
early in an attempt to get to Mina early. Don't let them make you
pray your Fajr before time.
- MINA - For those of you who haven't been there are three
Jamarat all in a line with each other separated by 200m or so. The
Saudi authorities have created what I can only describe as a
flyover so that you can perform your stoning from the above tier
as well as the lower tier. There is also a one way system on the
top tier so that everyone starts from one end and moves to the
other. Each Jamarat is surrounded by a circular wall and it is
this circle that your stones have to enter after you've thrown. We
were very fortunate enough to be on the side of the mountain and
we could see how the Hajjis were performing the stoning. On the
top tier most Hajjis walk in a straight line and reach the front
of the circle, consequently there is a HUGE crowd at the front of
the circle as people wait for those in front to finish. Because of
this you should walk at the sides hugging the fence and avoid the
front entirely. Walk PAST the Jamarat and then double back on
yourself and throw from the back of the circle.Alhamdulillah we
were able to place our hands on the circle wall and throw from
there using this piece of advice.
- SHOPPING - Check out the many bookshops. Lots of good stuff
out there
- PATIENCE - You'll understand the meaning of that word when you
encounter the crowds, the queues, the long waits etc etc etc
Also read Tips on http://www.jannah.org/hajj/fiftythings.html
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